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<DIV class=mainNewsInfo><SPAN id=mainFontSize><A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=減小字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(0,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/1.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>減小字體</FONT></A> <A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=增大字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(1,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/2.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>增大字體</FONT></A> </SPAN>作者：佚名 來源：<A href="http://www.souod.com"><FONT color=#810081>搜得健康網(wǎng)搜集整理</FONT></A> 發(fā)布時(shí)間：2009-07-14 01:27:46</DIV>
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<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出軌原因很多，但無論如何，在動(dòng)心之前要好好想一想：自己擁有的家庭真的不再是你的最愛了嗎？你與“他”的外遇是真愛還是寂寞的彌補(bǔ)？不要把錯(cuò)覺當(dāng)成真愛，否則，你會(huì)掉入一個(gè)更黑的深淵。 9 X2 B$ t* v! _4 \3 S2 `9 D5 n+ Z
<P> 當(dāng)今社會(huì)，不少婚姻變得十分脆弱，似乎有點(diǎn)不堪一擊。兩個(gè)曾海誓山盟的心愛之人，竟在不經(jīng)意中“紅杏出墻”。男人有外遇還理直氣壯，女人也要找出正當(dāng)?shù)睦碛?，為求心安理得。女人?qiáng)迫自己相信，自己是為“愛”才跟“他”外遇的。</P>
7 h" e: s0 w J<P> 因?yàn)閷ΜF(xiàn)代大多數(shù)女性來說，只要因愛出軌就沒有關(guān)系，為“性”或?yàn)槠渌虺鲕壥遣豢稍彽?。女人對婚姻的期望是以感情的滿足為準(zhǔn)則的，她們渴望被關(guān)心及愛護(hù)。而在我們的社會(huì)教育中，男性是不可以輕易流露感情的，也就是說，男人表達(dá)心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男兒有淚不輕彈”。男人在感情上不善于溝通是女人最大的失望。所以，不能滿足這種渴求，日積月累，這種被忽略的情緒就會(huì)爆發(fā)。當(dāng)一位男性在此時(shí)對她表現(xiàn)出關(guān)心及傾慕時(shí)，女人往往會(huì)錯(cuò)把感激當(dāng)成愛而出軌，因?yàn)椤八弊屇阌X得自己被重視，有人愛，又回復(fù)了美麗、性感。</P>
# T4 y2 ]4 O8 I8 Y5 b6 v. W<P> 女人與男人體會(huì)的是兩個(gè)完全不同的世界。男人可以把性與愛分得清清楚楚，女人卻不能。當(dāng)女人與伴侶兩情相悅時(shí)便會(huì)有靈肉合一的沖動(dòng)，日久生情，產(chǎn)生依戀情結(jié)。性讓女人有愛的錯(cuò)覺。即使女人當(dāng)初只是為“性”外遇，而不是為“愛”，但只要不斷與性伴侶發(fā)生關(guān)系，這種依戀的情愫便會(huì)逐漸滋長，最終使女人認(rèn)為有“愛”。</P>
# {, f4 x" N. ]+ Y; j<P> 當(dāng)一個(gè)女人婚姻出現(xiàn)危機(jī)時(shí)，會(huì)如饑似渴地希望找到另一伴侶來填補(bǔ)空虛和惶恐。充滿新鮮刺激并且無拘無束的外遇，會(huì)令她們仿佛重回少女時(shí)代。這時(shí)的女性往往分不清是激情還是真愛。</P>
$ [9 j0 u( v7 k I) S<P> 婚姻其實(shí)是一種“習(xí)慣”，要維持這種“習(xí)慣”并使之不能有“惰”性，是一個(gè)很難掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永遠(yuǎn)擁有”如果不被“熟視無睹”、“無須重視”所取代，那么，婚姻也許會(huì)像憧憬的一樣美好。無論男人和女人，都要警惕婚姻中的惰性，相互溝通、充滿激情才會(huì)維系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康網(wǎng),專業(yè)健康知識分享,為你健康保駕護(hù)航></FONT></A>. ^& d O- o& ^$ M9 V* K
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